"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I don't give a f@ck attitude...give me an example
- Thread starter Pete_C
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Niq Nova The Mighty
Don Juan
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Just lives life... carefree... and doesnt keep on looking back and blaming life and all. "Don't give a fu_ck" is a guy who doesnt care what other people think of him.
Chicks find guys like that attractive but JUST DONT OVERDO IT.
You might be acting stupid already and turning off women and you still "dont give a fu_ck"...
This chick walks past us with her friend, brunette she was gorgeous, i usually dont do anything when they're that hot, but i said fark it, tapped her on the shoulder n said "hey i know you!" (never seen her in my life). She said "really thats nice, now go away".
I IMMEDIATELY said, no worries you're probably not interesting anyway i can tell by the way you dress. She had a shocked look on her face, so i continued by saying, stick that in your weight watchers meal and swallllllllllow it. Dont ask me what i was thinkin cos i really didnt know why i said that, it just jumped into my head. She laughed and said with a smile, ill see you around ok?
I thought WTF. She liked it.
About 10 minutes or so later i saw her again, she came upto me and said "you suck" then stuck her tongue out at me in a cheeky way, and i cant believe i said this, but i immediately say "not as good as you, so ive heard". She cracked up and said "i must say, youve got mad reflexes". I replied with "i know im good thanks for your comment, thankyou come again" (like apu from simpsons but without the accent). She laughed again and walked off.
I didnt talk to her again all night but we had glances. So yeah my inner afc won in the end, but there u go. The dont give a fukk attutude works on some chicks
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.