"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I don't give a f@ck attitude...give me an example
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Niq Nova The Mighty
Don Juan
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Senior Don Juan
Just lives life... carefree... and doesnt keep on looking back and blaming life and all. "Don't give a fu_ck" is a guy who doesnt care what other people think of him.
Chicks find guys like that attractive but JUST DONT OVERDO IT.
You might be acting stupid already and turning off women and you still "dont give a fu_ck"...
This chick walks past us with her friend, brunette she was gorgeous, i usually dont do anything when they're that hot, but i said fark it, tapped her on the shoulder n said "hey i know you!" (never seen her in my life). She said "really thats nice, now go away".
I IMMEDIATELY said, no worries you're probably not interesting anyway i can tell by the way you dress. She had a shocked look on her face, so i continued by saying, stick that in your weight watchers meal and swallllllllllow it. Dont ask me what i was thinkin cos i really didnt know why i said that, it just jumped into my head. She laughed and said with a smile, ill see you around ok?
I thought WTF. She liked it.
About 10 minutes or so later i saw her again, she came upto me and said "you suck" then stuck her tongue out at me in a cheeky way, and i cant believe i said this, but i immediately say "not as good as you, so ive heard". She cracked up and said "i must say, youve got mad reflexes". I replied with "i know im good thanks for your comment, thankyou come again" (like apu from simpsons but without the accent). She laughed again and walked off.
I didnt talk to her again all night but we had glances. So yeah my inner afc won in the end, but there u go. The dont give a fukk attutude works on some chicks
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.