"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I don't give a f@ck attitude...give me an example
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Just lives life... carefree... and doesnt keep on looking back and blaming life and all. "Don't give a fu_ck" is a guy who doesnt care what other people think of him.
Chicks find guys like that attractive but JUST DONT OVERDO IT.
You might be acting stupid already and turning off women and you still "dont give a fu_ck"...
This chick walks past us with her friend, brunette she was gorgeous, i usually dont do anything when they're that hot, but i said fark it, tapped her on the shoulder n said "hey i know you!" (never seen her in my life). She said "really thats nice, now go away".
I IMMEDIATELY said, no worries you're probably not interesting anyway i can tell by the way you dress. She had a shocked look on her face, so i continued by saying, stick that in your weight watchers meal and swallllllllllow it. Dont ask me what i was thinkin cos i really didnt know why i said that, it just jumped into my head. She laughed and said with a smile, ill see you around ok?
I thought WTF. She liked it.
About 10 minutes or so later i saw her again, she came upto me and said "you suck" then stuck her tongue out at me in a cheeky way, and i cant believe i said this, but i immediately say "not as good as you, so ive heard". She cracked up and said "i must say, youve got mad reflexes". I replied with "i know im good thanks for your comment, thankyou come again" (like apu from simpsons but without the accent). She laughed again and walked off.
I didnt talk to her again all night but we had glances. So yeah my inner afc won in the end, but there u go. The dont give a fukk attutude works on some chicks
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.