"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I don't get the point of the HS Forum

Michele l'Arcangelo

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I don't get what the point of the HS Forum is about... Is it about complaining why nothing works for you, and a for people to fix your problems for yourself?

Or

Is it to actually learn.

If you actually wanted to learn -- sign up for the newsletter, read the tips in other parts of the forum, and read the bible.

I have seen so many useless threads about the same thing. If you really wanted to get over the fear and insecurity, you would research how to do it, not posting a thread asking people how to fix it for you, and having a fool-proof plan... that 70% does fail.

Just read the newsletter for 2 months. Read the new articles for 2 months. Read the bible about anything you must know. ...That should give you enough confidence.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MyNameIsEd

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no. sometimes the bible doesn't answer all of your questions. Sometimes you have to look to a living person willing to give you advice to give you an anwer. and that's what the highschool forum is about.
 

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I think sometimes people think the examples used in the guides don't help for their *exact* situation so they want the reassurance that somebody with knowledge is personally helping them with their problem.
 

Brian20o2

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x0dus said:
I think sometimes people think the examples used in the guides don't help for their *exact* situation so they want the reassurance that somebody with knowledge is personally helping them with their problem.
Therefor = A lack of confidence in their situation
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