"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I don't get the point of the HS Forum

Michele l'Arcangelo

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I don't get what the point of the HS Forum is about... Is it about complaining why nothing works for you, and a for people to fix your problems for yourself?

Or

Is it to actually learn.

If you actually wanted to learn -- sign up for the newsletter, read the tips in other parts of the forum, and read the bible.

I have seen so many useless threads about the same thing. If you really wanted to get over the fear and insecurity, you would research how to do it, not posting a thread asking people how to fix it for you, and having a fool-proof plan... that 70% does fail.

Just read the newsletter for 2 months. Read the new articles for 2 months. Read the bible about anything you must know. ...That should give you enough confidence.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MyNameIsEd

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no. sometimes the bible doesn't answer all of your questions. Sometimes you have to look to a living person willing to give you advice to give you an anwer. and that's what the highschool forum is about.
 

x0dus

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I think sometimes people think the examples used in the guides don't help for their *exact* situation so they want the reassurance that somebody with knowledge is personally helping them with their problem.
 

Brian20o2

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x0dus said:
I think sometimes people think the examples used in the guides don't help for their *exact* situation so they want the reassurance that somebody with knowledge is personally helping them with their problem.
Therefor = A lack of confidence in their situation
Read this
 
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