"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I don't get the point of the HS Forum

Michele l'Arcangelo

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I don't get what the point of the HS Forum is about... Is it about complaining why nothing works for you, and a for people to fix your problems for yourself?

Or

Is it to actually learn.

If you actually wanted to learn -- sign up for the newsletter, read the tips in other parts of the forum, and read the bible.

I have seen so many useless threads about the same thing. If you really wanted to get over the fear and insecurity, you would research how to do it, not posting a thread asking people how to fix it for you, and having a fool-proof plan... that 70% does fail.

Just read the newsletter for 2 months. Read the new articles for 2 months. Read the bible about anything you must know. ...That should give you enough confidence.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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MyNameIsEd

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no. sometimes the bible doesn't answer all of your questions. Sometimes you have to look to a living person willing to give you advice to give you an anwer. and that's what the highschool forum is about.
 

x0dus

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I think sometimes people think the examples used in the guides don't help for their *exact* situation so they want the reassurance that somebody with knowledge is personally helping them with their problem.
 

Brian20o2

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x0dus said:
I think sometimes people think the examples used in the guides don't help for their *exact* situation so they want the reassurance that somebody with knowledge is personally helping them with their problem.
Therefor = A lack of confidence in their situation
Read this
 
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