"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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frusciante1234

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hey guys, im new here so whats up

ok, this girl i went out with for a short time last year wants to hang out with me again. but its complicated. First of all, i really liked her and i spent some time trying to get her back but really just pushed her away. so eventually i gave up and haven't talked to her for like 5 months. 2 weeks ago i ran into her and she seemed really happy to see me, gave me a huge hug and the first thing she said to me was that she broke up with her boyfriend. So that seemed like a good sign to me. She told me to call her that night to hang out, but i didnt cause i was busy and had too much **** to do. Then i went on vacation for 2 weeks so i didnt talk to her.

So today i give her a call just to catch up with her since i really havent talked to her in like 5 months. When she answered she seemed extremely unenthusiastic, which really threw me off cause she was so happy to see me before. she just sounded like she did not really want to be talking to me. after a short convo, she said she wants to hang out next week (shes at her beach house right now) but i think she could have just been saying that. so im wondering if anyone can help me figure out whats goin on here cause i would like to try to get back with her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mr_rogers

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frusciante1234 said:
hey guys, im new here so whats up

ok, this girl i went out with for a short time last year wants to hang out with me again. but its complicated. First of all, i really liked her and i spent some time trying to get her back but really just pushed her away. so eventually i gave up and haven't talked to her for like 5 months. 2 weeks ago i ran into her and she seemed really happy to see me, gave me a huge hug and the first thing she said to me was that she broke up with her boyfriend. So that seemed like a good sign to me. She told me to call her that night to hang out, but i didnt cause i was busy and had too much **** to do. Then i went on vacation for 2 weeks so i didnt talk to her.

So today i give her a call just to catch up with her since i really havent talked to her in like 5 months. When she answered she seemed extremely unenthusiastic, which really threw me off cause she was so happy to see me before. she just sounded like she did not really want to be talking to me. after a short convo, she said she wants to hang out next week (shes at her beach house right now) but i think she could have just been saying that. so im wondering if anyone can help me figure out whats goin on here cause i would like to try to get back with her.
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I'd say that the best thing to do right now is to just play it cool until you meet with her again, and then see where things go from there.
 
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She's PISSED OFF at you because you waited so long to call her. You should have at least called her before you on vacation. she's losing interest in you.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Maybe she was just having a really bad day or extremely tired when you called her. It's definitely possible. It's a better sign that she's enthusiastic in person than over the phone. Anyways, I would also just play it cool and not try to make any moves until you're sure she's into you.
 
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