"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I don't fancy my girlfriend any more

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I've been with this girl for several months. The problem is I feel like I don't really fancy her anymore, BUT I still feel like I have an attachment to her. I feel like I don't want to end it with her but I know if I don't I'm just going to be unhappy. It's a bit of a bizarre situation. Anyone got any advice?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ScottKayman said:
I've been with this girl for several months. The problem is I feel like I don't really fancy her anymore, BUT I still feel like I have an attachment to her. I feel like I don't want to end it with her but I know if I don't I'm just going to be unhappy. It's a bit of a bizarre situation. Anyone got any advice?
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Go find another one and let her go be happy
 
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Been there ........... due to my childhood conditioning i felt guilty everytime i wanted to quit with a girl. This went as far as me being almost unable to end relationships quick and clean.


End this ASAP! (Maybe find a new plate first if you dont have one.....)
Otherwise you will not only feel guilty but also start developing agressions about still having to be in that relationship.
 
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