hb
Master Don Juan
I just don't enjoy it anymore unless I actually & honestly like the girl for who she is not just physical attraction, before I enjoyed it now I just feel dirtyyy
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I do not enjoy it WTF !!
- Thread starter hb
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The Inside Man
Master Don Juan
Looks to me like normally functioning human emotions. If you aren't into the girl you're with on more than a physical level you may get bored after the first couple times.
What the fvck? How stupid are you?Tiguere said:
OP: So you've got human emotions. Now what are you going to do about this problem? Maybe it's time to raise your standards and find a quality girl for awhile.
allegory dumb@ss. Reread his post. He is unable to bang a 10 unless he spends months talking to her.. he is unable to have casual meaningless sex with hottiea. He requires intimacy. Now if the op is a girl then I understand and I apologize for coming on sl string.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
currently I've been having the same problem :nervous:hb said:
I recently was with this girl and it took me an hour and a half to blow my load... I felt utterly discusted about it afterwards aswell and I avoided contact with her ever since... She didn't really do anything wrong...
The girl was probebly an 8 but the sh*t coming out of this girls mouth... She was just to stupid for me...
Then I was intrested in this girl who was a 7.5, funny, smart, etc... She turns out to be the BIGGIST snob I've ever met. The way she talks about everything is just ridiculous, so I totally lost intrest, I don't even want to talk to her because it just bores me to much. (she's also a major AW, she keeps texting me after I clearly told her that she bores me...)
Then there's this last girl, she's a 7, she's quite funny, reasonably smart and not really any down parts about her. She's very sexual etc etc... Now I could score her but when I think about it, she's just an average on everything and in fact she doesn't really intrest me that much...
I feel like I'm looking for to much in a girl, in fact I think I alwayse have... Somebody who's hot, good in the sack and when I wanna be serious, that she can be too and talk to me on the same level as I am...
Anyhow, I'm glad I'm not the only person suffering from this problem. Still, could be worse :yes:...
hb
Master Don Juan
haha @ die hard, & credo the girl I banged out last night was a 9.5 but her stupidity was off the charts.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.