hb
Master Don Juan
I just don't enjoy it anymore unless I actually & honestly like the girl for who she is not just physical attraction, before I enjoyed it now I just feel dirtyyy
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I do not enjoy it WTF !!
- Thread starter hb
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
The Inside Man
Master Don Juan
Looks to me like normally functioning human emotions. If you aren't into the girl you're with on more than a physical level you may get bored after the first couple times.
What the fvck? How stupid are you?Tiguere said:
OP: So you've got human emotions. Now what are you going to do about this problem? Maybe it's time to raise your standards and find a quality girl for awhile.
allegory dumb@ss. Reread his post. He is unable to bang a 10 unless he spends months talking to her.. he is unable to have casual meaningless sex with hottiea. He requires intimacy. Now if the op is a girl then I understand and I apologize for coming on sl string.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
currently I've been having the same problem :nervous:hb said:
I recently was with this girl and it took me an hour and a half to blow my load... I felt utterly discusted about it afterwards aswell and I avoided contact with her ever since... She didn't really do anything wrong...
The girl was probebly an 8 but the sh*t coming out of this girls mouth... She was just to stupid for me...
Then I was intrested in this girl who was a 7.5, funny, smart, etc... She turns out to be the BIGGIST snob I've ever met. The way she talks about everything is just ridiculous, so I totally lost intrest, I don't even want to talk to her because it just bores me to much. (she's also a major AW, she keeps texting me after I clearly told her that she bores me...)
Then there's this last girl, she's a 7, she's quite funny, reasonably smart and not really any down parts about her. She's very sexual etc etc... Now I could score her but when I think about it, she's just an average on everything and in fact she doesn't really intrest me that much...
I feel like I'm looking for to much in a girl, in fact I think I alwayse have... Somebody who's hot, good in the sack and when I wanna be serious, that she can be too and talk to me on the same level as I am...
Anyhow, I'm glad I'm not the only person suffering from this problem. Still, could be worse :yes:...
hb
Master Don Juan
haha @ die hard, & credo the girl I banged out last night was a 9.5 but her stupidity was off the charts.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.