hb
Master Don Juan
I just don't enjoy it anymore unless I actually & honestly like the girl for who she is not just physical attraction, before I enjoyed it now I just feel dirtyyy
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I do not enjoy it WTF !!
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The Inside Man
Master Don Juan
Looks to me like normally functioning human emotions. If you aren't into the girl you're with on more than a physical level you may get bored after the first couple times.
What the fvck? How stupid are you?Tiguere said:
OP: So you've got human emotions. Now what are you going to do about this problem? Maybe it's time to raise your standards and find a quality girl for awhile.
allegory dumb@ss. Reread his post. He is unable to bang a 10 unless he spends months talking to her.. he is unable to have casual meaningless sex with hottiea. He requires intimacy. Now if the op is a girl then I understand and I apologize for coming on sl string.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
currently I've been having the same problem :nervous:hb said:
I recently was with this girl and it took me an hour and a half to blow my load... I felt utterly discusted about it afterwards aswell and I avoided contact with her ever since... She didn't really do anything wrong...
The girl was probebly an 8 but the sh*t coming out of this girls mouth... She was just to stupid for me...
Then I was intrested in this girl who was a 7.5, funny, smart, etc... She turns out to be the BIGGIST snob I've ever met. The way she talks about everything is just ridiculous, so I totally lost intrest, I don't even want to talk to her because it just bores me to much. (she's also a major AW, she keeps texting me after I clearly told her that she bores me...)
Then there's this last girl, she's a 7, she's quite funny, reasonably smart and not really any down parts about her. She's very sexual etc etc... Now I could score her but when I think about it, she's just an average on everything and in fact she doesn't really intrest me that much...
I feel like I'm looking for to much in a girl, in fact I think I alwayse have... Somebody who's hot, good in the sack and when I wanna be serious, that she can be too and talk to me on the same level as I am...
Anyhow, I'm glad I'm not the only person suffering from this problem. Still, could be worse :yes:...
hb
Master Don Juan
haha @ die hard, & credo the girl I banged out last night was a 9.5 but her stupidity was off the charts.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.