Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I discovered an easy way to overcome approach anxiety

Atom Smasher

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Here's a great way to diminish your approach anxiety and get used to talking with women:

Go to church rummage sales on Saturday mornings. There are tons of women there with tables set up, selling their wares. Since they are they're in a "safe", structured environment, they are very open to friendly conversation. Pften, they're so bored having been standing or sitting at their tables all morning that they are extremely welcoming of a nice conversation.

Plus, there are tons of things to talk about. Just pick up an item & ask her a question about it, talk about the whether, ask "How's business today", there are so many conversation starters at your disposal, it's ridiculous.

Married or single, it doesn't matter as you're just getting practice talking with women. Try it... you'll like it. It puts you at ease and lets you get your mind off anxiety and onto the business of refining your conversation skills.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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yyc12

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Yeah, this is similar to the standalone vendors you find in malls as well. Often the women are just sitting there not doing too much of anything. These types are the easiest approaches as there are "props" available for ice breaking.
 
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