"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I discovered an easy way to overcome approach anxiety

Atom Smasher

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Here's a great way to diminish your approach anxiety and get used to talking with women:

Go to church rummage sales on Saturday mornings. There are tons of women there with tables set up, selling their wares. Since they are they're in a "safe", structured environment, they are very open to friendly conversation. Pften, they're so bored having been standing or sitting at their tables all morning that they are extremely welcoming of a nice conversation.

Plus, there are tons of things to talk about. Just pick up an item & ask her a question about it, talk about the whether, ask "How's business today", there are so many conversation starters at your disposal, it's ridiculous.

Married or single, it doesn't matter as you're just getting practice talking with women. Try it... you'll like it. It puts you at ease and lets you get your mind off anxiety and onto the business of refining your conversation skills.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yeah, this is similar to the standalone vendors you find in malls as well. Often the women are just sitting there not doing too much of anything. These types are the easiest approaches as there are "props" available for ice breaking.
 
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