"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I discovered an easy way to overcome approach anxiety

Atom Smasher

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Here's a great way to diminish your approach anxiety and get used to talking with women:

Go to church rummage sales on Saturday mornings. There are tons of women there with tables set up, selling their wares. Since they are they're in a "safe", structured environment, they are very open to friendly conversation. Pften, they're so bored having been standing or sitting at their tables all morning that they are extremely welcoming of a nice conversation.

Plus, there are tons of things to talk about. Just pick up an item & ask her a question about it, talk about the whether, ask "How's business today", there are so many conversation starters at your disposal, it's ridiculous.

Married or single, it doesn't matter as you're just getting practice talking with women. Try it... you'll like it. It puts you at ease and lets you get your mind off anxiety and onto the business of refining your conversation skills.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yeah, this is similar to the standalone vendors you find in malls as well. Often the women are just sitting there not doing too much of anything. These types are the easiest approaches as there are "props" available for ice breaking.
 
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