"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I Didn't Feel Like Going to the Cinema with Her, Then She Asked Her Ex

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Fela Kuti

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Snow Plowman said:
You have bigger problems than pickup...if you can't go to the movies alone
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Only because it's more fun to bring a date to the movies.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Jitterbug said:
Is she the type of person who would have a problem with you going on a date with your ex? Because that's what this is, essentially. Unless you're a really good friend with her ex, this isn't what girls do, when they're in a relationship that they actually value.

Is her ex a guy who showered her with gifts and paid for everything?

In your case, it's a bit too late to voice your disapproval of her going to the cinema with her ex, as you told her you're cool with it, so you'd be going back on your words. Just make sure that kind of disrespect doesn't happen again.
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What I know is that she and that ex became good friend ever since they broke up 2 years ago.

The fact is, I DID voice my disapproval by saying "I'm disappointed that you're going with him before asking for my permission first. But I won't forbid you to go since your friends are all not available."
 
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PHAT Rabbit said:
Anytime your gf brings up the fact that she was with some guy who you know is interested in her - you should use this technique in the logical succession that I have presented it here.
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what if she's with a guy that I'm not sure about whether he's interested or not but made me feel uncomfortable? should I voice my objection?
 
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Fela Kuti said:
what if she's with a guy that I'm not sure about whether he's interested or not but made me feel uncomfortable? should I voice my objection?
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No cause she knows what she is doing you talking about it wont make her care more... Just make sure that you are out partying too.
 
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