"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I Didn't Feel Like Going to the Cinema with Her, Then She Asked Her Ex

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Fela Kuti

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Snow Plowman said:
You have bigger problems than pickup...if you can't go to the movies alone
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Only because it's more fun to bring a date to the movies.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jitterbug said:
Is she the type of person who would have a problem with you going on a date with your ex? Because that's what this is, essentially. Unless you're a really good friend with her ex, this isn't what girls do, when they're in a relationship that they actually value.

Is her ex a guy who showered her with gifts and paid for everything?

In your case, it's a bit too late to voice your disapproval of her going to the cinema with her ex, as you told her you're cool with it, so you'd be going back on your words. Just make sure that kind of disrespect doesn't happen again.
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What I know is that she and that ex became good friend ever since they broke up 2 years ago.

The fact is, I DID voice my disapproval by saying "I'm disappointed that you're going with him before asking for my permission first. But I won't forbid you to go since your friends are all not available."
 
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PHAT Rabbit said:
Anytime your gf brings up the fact that she was with some guy who you know is interested in her - you should use this technique in the logical succession that I have presented it here.
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what if she's with a guy that I'm not sure about whether he's interested or not but made me feel uncomfortable? should I voice my objection?
 
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Fela Kuti said:
what if she's with a guy that I'm not sure about whether he's interested or not but made me feel uncomfortable? should I voice my objection?
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No cause she knows what she is doing you talking about it wont make her care more... Just make sure that you are out partying too.
 
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