"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I did one of the most nice guy, sickening things ever

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I am absolutely disgusted with myself.....

I kissed another guy on the cheek. I mean i consider myself a likable guy, real cool, relaxed I am not wild or out there when I drink alchohol I am more outgoing social whatnot...

Well anyways I was at this party last night friend of a friend's Bday lots of chicks ^_^ anyways..

at the end of the night I kissed this mother ****ers on the cheek after saying bye to him I was drunk, but What the hell could possess me to do some gay **** like that?

I have got to Kill this nice guy in me ASAP....
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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That's more like having to kill that gay guy in you
 
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Trust me I'm not Gay.....but I deserve that lol for being stupid
 
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The fact that you're Insecure about is what makes it embarassing. There are cultures where it's a norm to do such. I wouldn't really do it, but dude grow some balls and stop being so insecure about yourself. If you are a straight guy then you don't need to be worrying about such nonsense.
 
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Latim is right. Who gives a f**k?

You posting about this is gayer than the act itself.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Watch the Godfather series and then feel good about yourself afterwards.
 
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SeymourCake said:
Watch the Godfather series and then feel good about yourself afterwards.
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Yeah but the kisses were usually between the family and those guys are bonified gangsters. Nobody can question their hard reputation. They are as little gay as you can possibly get. Don Vito Corleone had not 1 gay cell in his whole body!

To OP, I disagree with the people that posted before me.

You know why? Cause instead of kissing a girl on the cheek you kissed a damn guy!

It's like saying you're perfectly healthy and normal but you got a little drunk and gave a guy a bj at a party rather than hooking up with a random girl at a party (which would the normal thing).

It's like saying you're perfectly healthy and normal but getting a little drunk and going inside a gay bar rather than a strip club on a saturday night (which would be the normal thing).

It's like saying you're perfectly healthy and normal but you kissed a guy at a party rather than kissing a girl..oh wait that's you! :(

I'm not saying you should be worried that you might be gay. I'm just saying that you might have a dark feminine side inside you that you haven't dealt with yet (as in crushed to oblivion) :D

So while you don't have much to worry about I do think you have reason to be upset and a little concerned as any male that kisses another male by mistake should be (unless they are a gangster) ;)
 
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Who cares, there isn't anything necessarily gay about that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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That has nothing to do with being a nice guy.
 
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Is the other guy as freaked out as you? Cause if not, don't.
 
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There's nothing wrong with kissing another male on the cheek. You're going overboard with this thread. Chill and handle your life (and your drinking) and this will diminish the chances of this happening again.
 
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It's no big deal at all. Just forget about it and move on.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Are you new to drinking?
Alcohol lowers your inhibitions on a lot of things and you have to learn to control stupid things you don't want to do... even when sh!t faced drunk lol.

I don't think you did a nice guy thing, you just did a drunk guy thing. I've seen guys get into fights, get confidence, get quiet, start crying, just go plain crazy when they are drunk., You apparently kiss guys on the cheeks :yes:

Just remember even though we all like to get sh!t faced you have to control some impulses otherwise you will end up doing a lot of sh!t that you would have had the sense not to do when you were sober.
 
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The guy I know who gets the most chicks also insists on kissing his friends when he's drunk. Whatever. Who cares?
 
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