"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I did one of the most nice guy, sickening things ever

women haze

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I am absolutely disgusted with myself.....

I kissed another guy on the cheek. I mean i consider myself a likable guy, real cool, relaxed I am not wild or out there when I drink alchohol I am more outgoing social whatnot...

Well anyways I was at this party last night friend of a friend's Bday lots of chicks ^_^ anyways..

at the end of the night I kissed this mother ****ers on the cheek after saying bye to him I was drunk, but What the hell could possess me to do some gay **** like that?

I have got to Kill this nice guy in me ASAP....
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PapiChulo

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That's more like having to kill that gay guy in you
 

women haze

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Trust me I'm not Gay.....but I deserve that lol for being stupid
 

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The fact that you're Insecure about is what makes it embarassing. There are cultures where it's a norm to do such. I wouldn't really do it, but dude grow some balls and stop being so insecure about yourself. If you are a straight guy then you don't need to be worrying about such nonsense.
 

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Latim is right. Who gives a f**k?

You posting about this is gayer than the act itself.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Watch the Godfather series and then feel good about yourself afterwards.
 

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SeymourCake said:
Watch the Godfather series and then feel good about yourself afterwards.
Yeah but the kisses were usually between the family and those guys are bonified gangsters. Nobody can question their hard reputation. They are as little gay as you can possibly get. Don Vito Corleone had not 1 gay cell in his whole body!

To OP, I disagree with the people that posted before me.

You know why? Cause instead of kissing a girl on the cheek you kissed a damn guy!

It's like saying you're perfectly healthy and normal but you got a little drunk and gave a guy a bj at a party rather than hooking up with a random girl at a party (which would the normal thing).

It's like saying you're perfectly healthy and normal but getting a little drunk and going inside a gay bar rather than a strip club on a saturday night (which would be the normal thing).

It's like saying you're perfectly healthy and normal but you kissed a guy at a party rather than kissing a girl..oh wait that's you! :(

I'm not saying you should be worried that you might be gay. I'm just saying that you might have a dark feminine side inside you that you haven't dealt with yet (as in crushed to oblivion) :D

So while you don't have much to worry about I do think you have reason to be upset and a little concerned as any male that kisses another male by mistake should be (unless they are a gangster) ;)
 

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Who cares, there isn't anything necessarily gay about that.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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That has nothing to do with being a nice guy.
 

FairShake

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Is the other guy as freaked out as you? Cause if not, don't.
 

Masculinity

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There's nothing wrong with kissing another male on the cheek. You're going overboard with this thread. Chill and handle your life (and your drinking) and this will diminish the chances of this happening again.
 

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It's no big deal at all. Just forget about it and move on.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Are you new to drinking?
Alcohol lowers your inhibitions on a lot of things and you have to learn to control stupid things you don't want to do... even when sh!t faced drunk lol.

I don't think you did a nice guy thing, you just did a drunk guy thing. I've seen guys get into fights, get confidence, get quiet, start crying, just go plain crazy when they are drunk., You apparently kiss guys on the cheeks :yes:

Just remember even though we all like to get sh!t faced you have to control some impulses otherwise you will end up doing a lot of sh!t that you would have had the sense not to do when you were sober.
 

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The guy I know who gets the most chicks also insists on kissing his friends when he's drunk. Whatever. Who cares?
 
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