"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by MyNameIsTaken
Lol. I've said that to myself a LOT of times...

So you really think my chances aren't all gone? Well then how the hell am I gonna save it? What's my awesome comeback? If I can barely approach a chick, how the hell am I supposed to get a good impression by one?
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You're making this harder than it should be.

All you do is next time you pass by her in the hall or something just say "Hey, how's it going?" in a normal voice (no stuttering, low volume crap). If you happen to be in the same place and aren't just passing her by, just say the same thing and add, "Didn't I meet you with *blank* a few days/weeks/whatever ago?" Then just continue from there. Obviously don't say that if you just met her yesterday. Wait at least around a week for the "Didn't I meet you..." line.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by familyguyfan
You're making this harder than it should be.

All you do is next time you pass by her in the hall or something just say "Hey, how's it going?" in a normal voice (no stuttering, low volume crap). If you happen to be in the same place and aren't just passing her by, just say the same thing and add, "Didn't I meet you with *blank* a few days/weeks/whatever ago?" Then just continue from there. Obviously don't say that if you just met her yesterday. Wait at least around a week for the "Didn't I meet you..." line.
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Ah, I see. What if I said something like this lol:

Me: "Hey, what's up, didn't I meet you a few days ago or something?"
Her: "Hey. Yeah you did."
Me: "Ah, well cool. What's your name, anyways?"
Her: "Tara(I'm thinking that might be her name)"
Me: "Ah cool, I have an uncle named Tara!"
Her: "lol."
Me: "Anyways, I gotta go, maybe I'll cya later Tara."
Her: "Bye."

Would that work lol? I do know I'm making this harder than it should be, but I just need something to work with here. :confused:
 
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That'll work just fine, but why don't you try extending the conversation beyond that. Ask her about herself and stuff (her grade, etc. even though you already know what it is). If you can't think of anything then it's fine to end it, but try and make it a little longer.
 
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Alright, well tomorrow's the day. Tomorrow would be about a week after I first talked to the chick. However, would something like:

Me: "Ah, well cool. What's your name, anyways?"
Her: "Tara(I'm thinking that might be her name)"
Me: "Ah cool, I have an uncle named Tara!"

Be a little to bad lol? I'm thinking, that might just make her roll her eyes or something.
 
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Originally posted by MyNameIsTaken
Alright, well tomorrow's the day. Tomorrow would be about a week after I first talked to the chick. However, would something like:

Me: "Ah, well cool. What's your name, anyways?"
Her: "Tara(I'm thinking that might be her name)"
Me: "Ah cool, I have an uncle named Tara!"

Be a little to bad lol? I'm thinking, that might just make her roll her eyes or something.
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Quit thinking so freiking much and just do it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Ok, so today was a really gay day... Thank God I have some DJ friends who can help me though. They pushed me and pushed me, but my balls still didn't show.

It was lunchtime, we were hangin' at a table. I've been telling my friends all week that today would be the day that I would stop being a ***** and approach. My target and her friend were sitting all alone in a table right behind us. My buds were pushing me and everything, even threatening to go tell her (which would be a nightmare lol) that I like her. So I totally pussed out, and I'm not sure, but I think one of my friends went and asked the chick, "do you like him?", and she responded with, "well I don't even know him", though I'm not entirely sure. Anyways, I'm really getting sick of this bull**** every ****ing day. So tomorrow WILL be the day that I will stop fear from ****ing me in the ass. If I don't report tomorrow that I have approached, then I'd like to be banned from the forum.

Hopefully my friends will motivate me to grab my nugget pouch and approach tomorrow. Also, my problem could be that I'm not listening to enough music to get motivated.

Another thing my friend asked me was, "why don't you get her SN on AIM?", which I didn't do because I just didn't, is it ok to talk to a chick on AIM that you just met?
 
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I swear to god, every time you post saying you didn't do it I'm gonna close your threads. Starting with this one.
 
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