Yea, I noticed she was all alone during the slow dances and such, so I came up to her and said "Would you like to dance with a beautiful stranger?" She said "Sure, By the way, what's your name?" So was danced and talked, and it got to the point that at every slow dance we would go to each other and dance. Heh, thanks guys for all the help.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I danced with a complete stranger last night at a wedding.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Francisco d'Anconia
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Hard to believe that it's as easy as that...
Well, she was a complete stranger to me since this wedding happened in another state. I saw she seemed lonely, so I thought I would cheer her up, and ask her to dance. I figured, "Well, I'm gonna be out of here tomarrow, so what does it matter if she says no?"
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
oakraiderz2
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HEHE...giggle giggle.Originally posted by oda
now you left out to part about if it was a grandma or a 12 year old girl
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I want the grandma!!!!!
Seriously though....good job man. Hope you didn't ask her to bend over and touch her toes...
Seriously though....good job man. Hope you didn't ask her to bend over and touch her toes...
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good job
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Nice job. You were observant and that helped you pick out a beautiful baby that was ready to party, to paraphrase Trent from Swingers.
But even better than that, you had the sac to go up to her and risk rejection and make it happen.
Well done.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.