Yea, I noticed she was all alone during the slow dances and such, so I came up to her and said "Would you like to dance with a beautiful stranger?" She said "Sure, By the way, what's your name?" So was danced and talked, and it got to the point that at every slow dance we would go to each other and dance. Heh, thanks guys for all the help.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I danced with a complete stranger last night at a wedding.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Hard to believe that it's as easy as that...
Well, she was a complete stranger to me since this wedding happened in another state. I saw she seemed lonely, so I thought I would cheer her up, and ask her to dance. I figured, "Well, I'm gonna be out of here tomarrow, so what does it matter if she says no?"
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
oakraiderz2
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HEHE...giggle giggle.Originally posted by oda
now you left out to part about if it was a grandma or a 12 year old girl
InsidiousNstinct
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I want the grandma!!!!!
Seriously though....good job man. Hope you didn't ask her to bend over and touch her toes...
Seriously though....good job man. Hope you didn't ask her to bend over and touch her toes...
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good job
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Nice job. You were observant and that helped you pick out a beautiful baby that was ready to party, to paraphrase Trent from Swingers.
But even better than that, you had the sac to go up to her and risk rejection and make it happen.
Well done.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.