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[SargeMaximus]

it is not about being direct , it is about not missing escalation moments , otherwise you will frustrate the woman or you will be perceived as a simp

I disagree. I think it’s all about being direct and not pvssy footing around your desires

 

[SargeMaximus]

Your direct approach separated you from the 50 other guys that day?


At least in the realm of online dating... Like you say, it would be hard to be that direct with a cold approach.

Yes but I’m working on cold approach. My theory is if I make a quick impression hinting toward what I want, go
For the number. If she gives it to me she’s interested. Then go direct sexual in text

 

[Zimbabwe]

Your direct approach separated you from the 50 other guys that day?

Online men are just a name and a photo, it's hard to have any real emotional investment. OLD is like watching a netflix movie and cold approach is like going to the cinema.

 

[Kdw8]

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Do you have a life? Aside from this forum? Who catfishes as a woman on a fkn dating app to go chat with other men? This is extremely weird and f*g like, theres something mentally wrong with you. You did all that just for an internet forum . Women have always gotten more matches than men, everybody knows that, so I don't understand why u went out of your way to do this haha.

 

[Zimbabwe]

Do you have a life? Aside from this forum? Who catfishes as a woman on a fkn dating app to go chat with other men? This is extremely weird and f*g like, theres something mentally wrong with you. You did all that just for an internet forum . Women have always gotten more matches than men, everybody knows that, so I don't understand why u went out of your way to do this haha.

Glad to know I'm living rent free in ur head

 

[Stoic]

Do you have a life? Aside from this forum? Who catfishes as a woman on a fkn dating app to go chat with other men? This is extremely weird and f*g like, theres something mentally wrong with you. You did all that just for an internet forum . Women have always gotten more matches than men, everybody knows that, so I don't understand why u went out of your way to do this haha.

Op, I think this is a fair rebuke. And it is kind of weird!

This is not news. Yes, an overwhelming number of men do poorly on OLD and simp.

But, you gave a guy a hard time for saying hi, how are you? To me, that's better than a try hard pick up line. It's how people interact in real life. And women will respond to that if your pictures and bio are on point.

 

[SW15]

I wouldn't even want to be seen in public with a water buffalo. What if you run into a relative or friend, coworker? Talk about embarassing!

Don't you think those same friends, relatives, and coworkers are talking behind your back, about how pathetic it is that you're an incel? You're still in an embarassing scenario, you just don't see it, and are not getting your djck wet.

It's an interesting debate. @DonJuanjr is correct that people are talking shiit behind the backs of incels. Is banging an overweight or obese woman better than being an incel? Tough question. I've mainly banged women who aren't overweight over the course of my sexual maturity. I have standards. Being an incel is really bad.

Women don't have to worry about being incels. Women find ways to get laid. It's so easy for nearly any woman to get laid on Tinder, Hinge, or Bumble.

 

[Bigpapa]

It's an interesting debate. @DonJuanjr is correct that people are talking shiit behind the backs of incels. Is banging an overweight or obese woman better than being an incel? Tough question. I've mainly banged women who aren't overweight over the course of my sexual maturity. I have standards. Being an incel is really bad.

Women don't have to worry about being incels. Women find ways to get laid. It's so easy for nearly any woman to get laid on Tinder, Hinge, or Bumble.

anything bellow a 6 ( true 6 , not “ I think she is a 6”) is as bad as being an incel , unless she has an amazing personality ofc

 

[zekko]

Half the guys use the same line

"You're cute but look like trouble"?. If that line doesn't sound like it's directly out of a PUA book, I don't know what does.

 

[Bigpapa]

Ego aside, explain how it is as bad.

because it is a last resort and shows desperation , just as incel guys are … desperate


no man with decent options will bang an ugly woman because this means ugly heirs

 

[MatureDJ]

because it is a last resort and shows desperation , just as incel guys are … desperate

no man with decent options will bang an ugly woman because this means ugly heirs

It thus comes down whether the man thinks that a woman's genetics is so inferior that he would be hurting the cosanguinous genetics of his relatives with the dead weight.

 

[Bigpapa]

One could say it shows adaptability. If it's AS desperate as incel guys, then why not get your djck wet? Guys keep saying it's as bad. Yet one side is having sex and the other isn't.

the point of sex is to procreate , not to “ get your d1ck wet and feel better that at least you get something “

but Whatever makes you sleep better at night dude

 

[Bigpapa]

It thus comes down whether the man thinks that a woman's genetics is so inferior that he would be hurting the cosanguinous genetics of his relatives with the dead weight.

The point of procreation is for the specie to evolve

if A guy has nothing to offer , then he will be on the lower end of the chain and get the leftovers

there is nothing to debate about anything really , as everything has a lot of Methodology around it .

what we can do is to say that we like more of X than Y , not that something is good looking when it is not

like for example some guys might like legs and ass over big greats , or darker skin over white pale skin , or someone that is super smart over being super hot

 

[Bigpapa]

Why the fvck are you on this site?

The point of sex was always about procreation ( knowingly or not ) , or in some cases about validation

sex is an irrational response that men have towards women that have good genes , not some rational desire as you try to phrase it

never Really saw a guy that would sleep with a girl that he thinks she has bad genes , unless he is desperate

and hedonism is affecting such a minority of guys , that makes no sense to even bring it into discussion

hedonism is strictly linked to narcissism , which is some sort of a mental problem and also strictly linked to immaturity

also , women in generAl bring little no pleasure having them around , so the argument that they are an instrument of pleasure is a very low level argument

for every hot women that you see , there is at least one guy who is tired of her bullsh1t

 

[SargeMaximus]

Imo sex has morphed into a social hierarchy rather than a reproduction thibg

 

[Bigpapa]

Imo sex has morphed into a social hierarchy rather than a reproduction thibg

it is not what we think , but what our impulses are

if it was about hierarchy , then the top guys would f8ck everything that would move just to show where they stand . Rarely is the case though

never really heard of a guy sleeping with more than 3-4 girls at the same time . And most of this guys have actually relationships with this girls , rarely ONS

 

[Bigpapa]

This is semantics...

or you projecting your insecurities into the world

it is the same thing with money , we think that money are super important , but the truth is that money is cool to have mainly because you can say to people that do not have them that Is bullsh1t without being perceived as sour

 

[Bigpapa]

Answer this then..... Why is a guy an incel?

Forget it... I'll answer... He's an incel because he doesn't have enough of game to get women of a certain caliber. Your answer is for him to forego getting any experience with women due to "self respect" aka ego and pride. The result is him not learning anything and sitting on an ivory pusssyless tower looking down on "desperate" guys. If you ask me, he's the loser in this scenario.

no offense man , but unless you are extremely ugly or socially retarded or aiming too high, you should not be an incel

I see all the time average guys dating at least decent girls , or average guys having a family with normal women

 

[biggoal]

Just came across another girl on tinder with herpes listed in her profile!! What has old become? Stds, preggers, trannies.

 

[Bigpapa]

Just came across another girl on tinder with herpes listed in her profile!! What has old become? Stds, preggers, trannies.

the sad part is that guys still talk and focus mainly on old , and interested in how to become “ successful “ there