"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I committed a sin and stalked her facebook

SirFratserlot

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been on NC for 4-5 weeks I think. Haven't tried to talk to her, but we snapchat occasionally. idk if that counts. I went on her fb and now I want to burrow my head in the deepest pillow right now. Punish me.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hustlaz Ambition

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Let me guess she uploaded a photo or a status update about another guy. If that is what you saw, then you done really sh!tted the ****!ng bed.
 

Hustlaz Ambition

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Consider yourself lucky I know a dude from high school who nearly killed himself because he decided to " Facebook stalk" his ex and stumbled upon a photo of her and her new man kissing.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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rhythmic

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Stop Snap Chatting her, too. You don't know if it counts? NC stands for no contact. No contact means NO CONTACT. So obviously it counts.

Start again. You need to delete and block her if necessary (sounds like you might use Facebook a lot) and get into other things and other people.
 

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SirFratserlot said:
Should I delete her off fb
no contact means NO CONTACT...In everyway possible. No snap chats/ no looking at her FB profile...no calling texting...no running into her...dont even look at photos of her that u may have....nothing, its the only way to recover...if you are not moving foward you are moving backwards....so stick to it dude!!!!


Muscleman has a great post on getting over ur ex on his blog...read it and absorb the material

http://www.adarkheart.com/2013/05/19/how-to-get-over-your-ex/

Keep Spinning,
J0504S
 

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When you go NC the person shouldn't exist in your mind anymore. You can't facebook stalk a person that doesn't exist.
 

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Well don't snapchat her consistently. Like she sent me a selfie and I didn't reply to it for like 3 days. I mainly lurk on fb and rarely post shvt.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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JohnChops

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What guy Facebook stalks, dude come on. That's such a woman thing to do. Grow a pair of fvcking balls , get out there and see how the green the grass is on this side. Get off Facebook, go out, find some interesting places or things to do and indulge yourself in life.

If I see another thread that sounds like it was, or should be , written by a woman complaining I'll freak out.
 

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You should not have any time to Facebook stalk because you should be out spending time destroying another woman's vagina.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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rhythmic

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SoSuave666 said:
My suggestion to you is to delete YOUR facebook.
The best two options in my opinion are either this ^, or have a Facebook that you don't use, or that you use every 2 months or so. If you don't use it like the vast majority of people do (for hours a day!!!) it can be a great tool for showing high value.
 

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SirFratserlot said:
I went on her fb and now I want to burrow my head in the deepest pillow right now.
With Facebook, look but don't touch. They are just pictures. Dude, she doesn't know you look at her stuff. I check out all my exes once in awhile just to see what they look like now. If they don't want to be seen, they would BLOCK YOU and wouldn't even have a profile to begin with.

There isn't an app or plugin or ANYTHING which lets you know who visits your page...it's Facebook's policy...so don't worry.

I wouldn't Snap Chat or anything like that. No Contact, No Interaction.
 
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