Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I committed a sin and stalked her facebook

SirFratserlot

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been on NC for 4-5 weeks I think. Haven't tried to talk to her, but we snapchat occasionally. idk if that counts. I went on her fb and now I want to burrow my head in the deepest pillow right now. Punish me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Hustlaz Ambition

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Let me guess she uploaded a photo or a status update about another guy. If that is what you saw, then you done really sh!tted the ****!ng bed.
 

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Consider yourself lucky I know a dude from high school who nearly killed himself because he decided to " Facebook stalk" his ex and stumbled upon a photo of her and her new man kissing.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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rhythmic

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Stop Snap Chatting her, too. You don't know if it counts? NC stands for no contact. No contact means NO CONTACT. So obviously it counts.

Start again. You need to delete and block her if necessary (sounds like you might use Facebook a lot) and get into other things and other people.
 

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SirFratserlot said:
Should I delete her off fb
no contact means NO CONTACT...In everyway possible. No snap chats/ no looking at her FB profile...no calling texting...no running into her...dont even look at photos of her that u may have....nothing, its the only way to recover...if you are not moving foward you are moving backwards....so stick to it dude!!!!


Muscleman has a great post on getting over ur ex on his blog...read it and absorb the material

http://www.adarkheart.com/2013/05/19/how-to-get-over-your-ex/

Keep Spinning,
J0504S
 

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When you go NC the person shouldn't exist in your mind anymore. You can't facebook stalk a person that doesn't exist.
 

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Well don't snapchat her consistently. Like she sent me a selfie and I didn't reply to it for like 3 days. I mainly lurk on fb and rarely post shvt.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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JohnChops

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What guy Facebook stalks, dude come on. That's such a woman thing to do. Grow a pair of fvcking balls , get out there and see how the green the grass is on this side. Get off Facebook, go out, find some interesting places or things to do and indulge yourself in life.

If I see another thread that sounds like it was, or should be , written by a woman complaining I'll freak out.
 

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You should not have any time to Facebook stalk because you should be out spending time destroying another woman's vagina.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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rhythmic

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SoSuave666 said:
My suggestion to you is to delete YOUR facebook.
The best two options in my opinion are either this ^, or have a Facebook that you don't use, or that you use every 2 months or so. If you don't use it like the vast majority of people do (for hours a day!!!) it can be a great tool for showing high value.
 

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SirFratserlot said:
I went on her fb and now I want to burrow my head in the deepest pillow right now.
With Facebook, look but don't touch. They are just pictures. Dude, she doesn't know you look at her stuff. I check out all my exes once in awhile just to see what they look like now. If they don't want to be seen, they would BLOCK YOU and wouldn't even have a profile to begin with.

There isn't an app or plugin or ANYTHING which lets you know who visits your page...it's Facebook's policy...so don't worry.

I wouldn't Snap Chat or anything like that. No Contact, No Interaction.
 
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