Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Not true...I can "score" faster than any guy on this site, guaranteed. :yes:I love Hyori Lee said:Actually I'm the best.
Meet me at 1st Street in Los Angeles.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Well, I pull numbers or a lay more or less everytime I go out clubbing, so I'd hardly call myself a 'half-assed PUA', but I do SERIOUSLY doubt that you'll find anyone from this site that is at the level that you are seeking as a challenge.Jlaix said:I see a few people responding, but I am looking for the top guy here so there will be no dispute.
Somebody asked about the specifics about the infield challenge.
We will sarge for 3 hours durring the day, and 3 hours durring the night, this way we can show day and night game.
I pull chicks every night I go out, so if you are going to seriously challenge me, please be at a level where you can enter a venue and take over the room. I don't want to waste my time with some half assed PUA who can only get makeouts in the club.
Wyldfire said:Not true...I can "score" faster than any guy on this site, guaranteed. :yes:
shhhhhSo pimp its scary said:Being a woman has it's perks sometimes, eh?
Jlaix said:I see a few people responding, but I am looking for the top guy here so there will be no dispute.
I really dont care about your pickup ability since I dont need any pointers, in particular pointers that I have to pay for, but your marketing is genius. I challenge the best (on a site that doesn't distinguish the best), you guys responding aren't at my level (even though I called everyone here out), I dont want to waste my time with a half assed PUA (yeah I can call you out, but in my head when you respond I'm still better than you).Jlaix said:I pull chicks every night I go out, so if you are going to seriously challenge me, please be at a level where you can enter a venue and take over the room. I don't want to waste my time with some half assed PUA who can only get makeouts in the club.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Bro, my abilities infield arent up for dispute, thousdands upon thousands of guys have seen me game all over the world, that part is not up for discussion.belividere said:I really dont care about your pickup ability since I dont need any pointers, in particular pointers that I have to pay for, but your marketing is genius. I challenge the best (on a site that doesn't distinguish the best), you guys responding aren't at my level (even though I called everyone here out), I dont want to waste my time with a half assed PUA (yeah I can call you out, but in my head when you respond I'm still better than you).
Instead of calling out the "best" pua on this site why dont you just go ahead and give the times and dates of your seminars and put up public challenges to anyone who wants to show up and beat you at your own game. Get over yourself. Just because guys are willing to pay you money to supposedly learn how to be a pua does not necessarily make you a pua.
So instead of acting a big shot and then backing down why not just open up your "pua sessions" to anyone who wants to challenge you. Or maybe your scared that you'll lose your only source of income if you do so.![]()
You caught me, missy.Wyldfire said:I notice you changed your challenge to "him"...chicken!![]()
You wish... :moon:Jlaix said:You caught me, missy.
I'll challenge you. I guarantee I can get laid just as fast as you at a club.
Is Wyldfire declining?Wyldfire said:You wish... :moon:
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Jlaix, you're all talk. You got nothing.Jlaix said:Is Wyldfire declining?
I love Hyori Lee said:Jlaix, you're all talk. You got nothing.
This thread will be closed.
Post a picture of yourself, you troll.
If I did the casual sex thing and were not a full time college student I would accept and make you eat your words. I don't think anyone is going to accept your challenge, though.Jlaix said:Is Wyldfire declining?
I'm way hotter...Jlaix said:
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.