"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I Challenge the Top DJ on This Site!
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Meet me at 1st Street in Los Angeles.
Somebody asked about the specifics about the infield challenge.
We will sarge for 3 hours durring the day, and 3 hours durring the night, this way we can show day and night game.
I pull chicks every night I go out, so if you are going to seriously challenge me, please be at a level where you can enter a venue and take over the room. I don't want to waste my time with some half assed PUA who can only get makeouts in the club.
ValleyDJing
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
So pimp its scary
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Well, I pull numbers or a lay more or less everytime I go out clubbing, so I'd hardly call myself a 'half-assed PUA', but I do SERIOUSLY doubt that you'll find anyone from this site that is at the level that you are seeking as a challenge.Jlaix said:
You should get in on that keys to the VIP show...
So pimp its scary
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Wyldfire said:
Being a woman has it's perks sometimes, eh?
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Jlaix said:
I really dont care about your pickup ability since I dont need any pointers, in particular pointers that I have to pay for, but your marketing is genius. I challenge the best (on a site that doesn't distinguish the best), you guys responding aren't at my level (even though I called everyone here out), I dont want to waste my time with a half assed PUA (yeah I can call you out, but in my head when you respond I'm still better than you).Jlaix said:
Instead of calling out the "best" pua on this site why dont you just go ahead and give the times and dates of your seminars and put up public challenges to anyone who wants to show up and beat you at your own game. Get over yourself. Just because guys are willing to pay you money to supposedly learn how to be a pua does not necessarily make you a pua.
So instead of acting a big shot and then backing down why not just open up your "pua sessions" to anyone who wants to challenge you. Or maybe your scared that you'll lose your only source of income if you do so.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Bro, my abilities infield arent up for dispute, thousdands upon thousands of guys have seen me game all over the world, that part is not up for discussion.belividere said:I really dont care about your pickup ability since I dont need any pointers, in particular pointers that I have to pay for, but your marketing is genius. I challenge the best (on a site that doesn't distinguish the best), you guys responding aren't at my level (even though I called everyone here out), I dont want to waste my time with a half assed PUA (yeah I can call you out, but in my head when you respond I'm still better than you).
Instead of calling out the "best" pua on this site why dont you just go ahead and give the times and dates of your seminars and put up public challenges to anyone who wants to show up and beat you at your own game. Get over yourself. Just because guys are willing to pay you money to supposedly learn how to be a pua does not necessarily make you a pua.
So instead of acting a big shot and then backing down why not just open up your "pua sessions" to anyone who wants to challenge you. Or maybe your scared that you'll lose your only source of income if you do so.
I refuse to hold an infeld challenge at one of my bootcamps, students pay about 2K each to learn from us every weekend, I will not include them in this drama.
I am not backing down, I just want to know who the top DJ here is, and I will fly him out and challenge him.
Nuff said
Here's a tip...if you want to invite people to use whatever services you offer don't come on here like another immature posturing puss bag...we have enough of those to last a life time. Just say what you have to offer and tell people where to find that information. The method you're using is not going to get the response you want...it's just going to invite flames, posturing and wasted bandwidth.
I notice you changed your challenge to "him"...chicken!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I love Hyori Lee
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Jlaix, you're all talk. You got nothing.Jlaix said:
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Post a picture of yourself, you troll.
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I'll beat you in your own game.
Come down to LA.
If I did the casual sex thing and were not a full time college student I would accept and make you eat your words. I don't think anyone is going to accept your challenge, though.Jlaix said:
If you honestly want to get someone to fly out wherever there is...let me make this suggestion...make anyone interested send you a PM telling you why you should pick them to show "how you roll" or whatever the heck you want to call it. You'd get a much better response and others might actually check out whatever help it is you offer.
Honestly now...trying to be ****y with other guys online serves no real purpose. Just offer a free seminar or whatever it is to whoever has the best "essay" application and if you know what you're doing the person you pick can come back and report on it. Doesn't that make more sense?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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