"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I Challenge the Top DJ on This Site!
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Meet me at 1st Street in Los Angeles.
Somebody asked about the specifics about the infield challenge.
We will sarge for 3 hours durring the day, and 3 hours durring the night, this way we can show day and night game.
I pull chicks every night I go out, so if you are going to seriously challenge me, please be at a level where you can enter a venue and take over the room. I don't want to waste my time with some half assed PUA who can only get makeouts in the club.
ValleyDJing
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
So pimp its scary
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Well, I pull numbers or a lay more or less everytime I go out clubbing, so I'd hardly call myself a 'half-assed PUA', but I do SERIOUSLY doubt that you'll find anyone from this site that is at the level that you are seeking as a challenge.Jlaix said:
You should get in on that keys to the VIP show...
So pimp its scary
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Wyldfire said:
Being a woman has it's perks sometimes, eh?
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Jlaix said:
I really dont care about your pickup ability since I dont need any pointers, in particular pointers that I have to pay for, but your marketing is genius. I challenge the best (on a site that doesn't distinguish the best), you guys responding aren't at my level (even though I called everyone here out), I dont want to waste my time with a half assed PUA (yeah I can call you out, but in my head when you respond I'm still better than you).Jlaix said:
Instead of calling out the "best" pua on this site why dont you just go ahead and give the times and dates of your seminars and put up public challenges to anyone who wants to show up and beat you at your own game. Get over yourself. Just because guys are willing to pay you money to supposedly learn how to be a pua does not necessarily make you a pua.
So instead of acting a big shot and then backing down why not just open up your "pua sessions" to anyone who wants to challenge you. Or maybe your scared that you'll lose your only source of income if you do so.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Bro, my abilities infield arent up for dispute, thousdands upon thousands of guys have seen me game all over the world, that part is not up for discussion.belividere said:I really dont care about your pickup ability since I dont need any pointers, in particular pointers that I have to pay for, but your marketing is genius. I challenge the best (on a site that doesn't distinguish the best), you guys responding aren't at my level (even though I called everyone here out), I dont want to waste my time with a half assed PUA (yeah I can call you out, but in my head when you respond I'm still better than you).
Instead of calling out the "best" pua on this site why dont you just go ahead and give the times and dates of your seminars and put up public challenges to anyone who wants to show up and beat you at your own game. Get over yourself. Just because guys are willing to pay you money to supposedly learn how to be a pua does not necessarily make you a pua.
So instead of acting a big shot and then backing down why not just open up your "pua sessions" to anyone who wants to challenge you. Or maybe your scared that you'll lose your only source of income if you do so.
I refuse to hold an infeld challenge at one of my bootcamps, students pay about 2K each to learn from us every weekend, I will not include them in this drama.
I am not backing down, I just want to know who the top DJ here is, and I will fly him out and challenge him.
Nuff said
Here's a tip...if you want to invite people to use whatever services you offer don't come on here like another immature posturing puss bag...we have enough of those to last a life time. Just say what you have to offer and tell people where to find that information. The method you're using is not going to get the response you want...it's just going to invite flames, posturing and wasted bandwidth.
I notice you changed your challenge to "him"...chicken!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Jlaix, you're all talk. You got nothing.Jlaix said:
This thread will be closed.
Post a picture of yourself, you troll.
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I'll beat you in your own game.
Come down to LA.
If I did the casual sex thing and were not a full time college student I would accept and make you eat your words. I don't think anyone is going to accept your challenge, though.Jlaix said:
If you honestly want to get someone to fly out wherever there is...let me make this suggestion...make anyone interested send you a PM telling you why you should pick them to show "how you roll" or whatever the heck you want to call it. You'd get a much better response and others might actually check out whatever help it is you offer.
Honestly now...trying to be ****y with other guys online serves no real purpose. Just offer a free seminar or whatever it is to whoever has the best "essay" application and if you know what you're doing the person you pick can come back and report on it. Doesn't that make more sense?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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