"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I CHALLENGE all of you to take pics and post them
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Aiken_Drum
Master Don Juan
Mmmm, I think you too should go to talk to sogay.com instead of here...
Flyguy3663
Master Don Juan
i remember that aol sn.. ur machoguy.. i know i remember that SN.. anyways IM me on AOL/AIM.. sn is flyguy3663
Alpha male Female Catcher
Don Juan
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=K8NEKMH&key=GTY
I'm 35 now and been body building since I was 19. I've always been into bulking up and have never really had a decent go at cutting. I'm more into strength training, my personal best bench press is 370lb. I'm 5'9" and 250lb. I'm proud of my physique (I look much better with clothes on) but obviously won't be giving anyone any advice on how to cut. (I don't post in this section because I don't think there is a great deal to say about body building unless you're into steroids or getting the last 5% fat of your body).
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Flyguy3663
Master Don Juan
btw - good numbers on the bench
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Flyguy3663
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soshyopathe, wheres the pic?
diesel?
viroid??
don_jaunabee lol??
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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www.wannabebigforums.com/attachment.php?s=&postid=325087
http://pics2.hotornot.com/pics/HS/H8/NL/KE/KYOUN8RWUQYF.jpg
oops, didn't see the shirt off part. oh well, it's what I got right now...no digital camera with me.
Robby
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
What would make us fakes?
Even if we were fat bald old men or 15 year old skinny punks...we would still have more knomwledge than you about heatlh & fitness.
most of the bodybuilding gurus are skinny dweebs.
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"Fear is for...getting your confidence." -STEVEN HELLER, PhD
"Not one shred of evidence supports the notion that life is serious!" - FRIEDRICH NIETZSCHE
wheelin&dealin
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If I were to take a guess as to what these guys look like, I would say that they are big strong guys with a high % bodyfat. You know the type of guys I'm talking about, the ones that lift heavy weights but slack off on the cardio. The typical strong but fat football player physique.
Flyguy3663
Master Don Juan
yea i used to but i been watchin what i eat and doing some cardio to. right now ive slimemd down a ton and almost have my 6 pack back.. anyways tho yea a lot of dudes go heavy but slack on diet and cardio. i know i dont want that look lol..
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.