You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Mmmm, I think you too should go to talk to sogay.com instead of here...Originally posted by BigManB69:
Guys, these bodies are not much compared to me. Flyguy IM me at duke9087 and you all will see what I have been talking about to you for such a long time.
i remember that aol sn.. ur machoguy.. i know i remember that SN.. anyways IM me on AOL/AIM.. sn is flyguy3663Originally posted by BigManB69:
Guys, these bodies are not much compared to me. Flyguy IM me at duke9087 and you all will see what I have been talking about to you for such a long time.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Isn't duke9087 machoguy123's SN? I'm confused now...Originally posted by BigManB69:
Guys, these bodies are not much compared to me. Flyguy IM me at duke9087 and you all will see what I have been talking about to you for such a long time.
Nm.Originally posted by gotnone:
Isn't duke9087 machoguy123's SN? I'm confused now...
I'm game.Originally posted by Viroid:
Ive got a better idea:
How about we all post pics of the chicks weve dated...
Anyone game?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Yes, I agree. It is NOT hard to get a picture. I also wonder whether such people like Lorenzo, Viroid, and Diesel are fakes.Originally posted by Flyguy3663:
yo theres like 80 guys that post here.. why have only 5 or so shown their pics???? somthin tells me a lot of you arent as built and shyt as u say..
soshyopathe, wheres the pic?
diesel?
viroid??
don_jaunabee lol??
What would make us fakes?Originally posted by BigManB69:
Yes, I agree. It is NOT hard to get a picture. I also wonder whether such people like Lorenzo, Viroid, and Diesel are fakes.
I agree that you guys have a good knowledge of health and fitness.Originally posted by Viroid:
What would make us fakes?
Even if we were fat bald old men or 15 year old skinny punks...we would still have more knomwledge than you about heatlh & fitness.
most of the bodybuilding gurus are skinny dweebs.
If I were to take a guess as to what these guys look like, I would say that they are big strong guys with a high % bodyfat. You know the type of guys I'm talking about, the ones that lift heavy weights but slack off on the cardio. The typical strong but fat football player physique.Originally posted by BigManB69:
Yes, I agree. It is NOT hard to get a picture. I also wonder whether such people like Lorenzo, Viroid, and Diesel are fakes.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.