"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I cant take it anymore. Feeling worst every day!!

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Austin Allegro

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Read a book from Amazon called 'Status Anxiety' by Alain de Botton, an English philosopher. Gives quite good insight into your condition and how to deal with it.

BTW I think 'sunshine girl' refers to the kind of chick who is all happy and smiley on the surface but a total nutcake underneath.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Trickster_guy_2001, you need some serious help. Actually I think you reallly NEED to get a life more than the original poster.
 
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I am not going to go on about taking pills or what you should do like the gym etc.

The thing you have to realise and have to work on is this is all coming from within. You have to take some time out from the world, from everything, and just get your head together. You need to find the confidence and the fire from inside of yourself. You have already noticed that whenever people try to make u feel better or whatever, you dont feel better at all. Stop looking for others to make you happy, find it within yourself. This is the toughest thing to do, and in the western world these days, people dont seem to do it very often, instead look for material things (including girls), to make them happy.

One more thing, are you healthy physically? If you are you have no excuses to not be out there living your life to the fullest. Now you just have to overcome your inner self.
 
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