"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I cant take it anymore. Feeling worst every day!!

Austin Allegro

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Read a book from Amazon called 'Status Anxiety' by Alain de Botton, an English philosopher. Gives quite good insight into your condition and how to deal with it.

BTW I think 'sunshine girl' refers to the kind of chick who is all happy and smiley on the surface but a total nutcake underneath.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Ebach

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Trickster_guy_2001, you need some serious help. Actually I think you reallly NEED to get a life more than the original poster.
 

CLOONEY

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I am not going to go on about taking pills or what you should do like the gym etc.

The thing you have to realise and have to work on is this is all coming from within. You have to take some time out from the world, from everything, and just get your head together. You need to find the confidence and the fire from inside of yourself. You have already noticed that whenever people try to make u feel better or whatever, you dont feel better at all. Stop looking for others to make you happy, find it within yourself. This is the toughest thing to do, and in the western world these days, people dont seem to do it very often, instead look for material things (including girls), to make them happy.

One more thing, are you healthy physically? If you are you have no excuses to not be out there living your life to the fullest. Now you just have to overcome your inner self.
 
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