"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I cant take it anymore. Feeling worst every day!!

Austin Allegro

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Read a book from Amazon called 'Status Anxiety' by Alain de Botton, an English philosopher. Gives quite good insight into your condition and how to deal with it.

BTW I think 'sunshine girl' refers to the kind of chick who is all happy and smiley on the surface but a total nutcake underneath.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ebach

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Trickster_guy_2001, you need some serious help. Actually I think you reallly NEED to get a life more than the original poster.
 

CLOONEY

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I am not going to go on about taking pills or what you should do like the gym etc.

The thing you have to realise and have to work on is this is all coming from within. You have to take some time out from the world, from everything, and just get your head together. You need to find the confidence and the fire from inside of yourself. You have already noticed that whenever people try to make u feel better or whatever, you dont feel better at all. Stop looking for others to make you happy, find it within yourself. This is the toughest thing to do, and in the western world these days, people dont seem to do it very often, instead look for material things (including girls), to make them happy.

One more thing, are you healthy physically? If you are you have no excuses to not be out there living your life to the fullest. Now you just have to overcome your inner self.
 
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