"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I cant take it anymore. Feeling worst every day!!

Austin Allegro

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Read a book from Amazon called 'Status Anxiety' by Alain de Botton, an English philosopher. Gives quite good insight into your condition and how to deal with it.

BTW I think 'sunshine girl' refers to the kind of chick who is all happy and smiley on the surface but a total nutcake underneath.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ebach

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Trickster_guy_2001, you need some serious help. Actually I think you reallly NEED to get a life more than the original poster.
 

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I am not going to go on about taking pills or what you should do like the gym etc.

The thing you have to realise and have to work on is this is all coming from within. You have to take some time out from the world, from everything, and just get your head together. You need to find the confidence and the fire from inside of yourself. You have already noticed that whenever people try to make u feel better or whatever, you dont feel better at all. Stop looking for others to make you happy, find it within yourself. This is the toughest thing to do, and in the western world these days, people dont seem to do it very often, instead look for material things (including girls), to make them happy.

One more thing, are you healthy physically? If you are you have no excuses to not be out there living your life to the fullest. Now you just have to overcome your inner self.
 
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