"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I can't stop feeling like I'm destined to be alone forever

bigdave17

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Why haven't you moved to SF yet? I told you that you would have tons of success with Asian girls.

All you would have to do is go into a bar and look at an Asian girl and they would want to bang you. They dont care if your social skills suck as long as youre white. And since you're better looking than Channing Tatum, that would make it even easier.

Are you gonna whine on SoSuave forever, or are you gonna get up off your butt and move to California?
I'm not white - I'm Mediterranean

and I want a Mediterranean GF. Asians have no ass or hips
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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marmel75

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then why is it that the only women who stay interested in me are 50 year olds and gross fatties?? I've always been good at talking to people

meanwhile, the female equivalent of me is dating movie stars
Because you are an insecure fruitloop and most women aren't really into those from what I've seen.
 
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