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Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 15, 2006
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First of all, I've been trying to get rid of her for the better part of a year. We used to mess around, but she wouldn't let it go further because she didn't want to ruin our "friendship". Ever since, it's been an ever increasing circle of me ditching her, her guilting me into being "friends" again, then her leading me on/dissing me, and me ditching her again.
Last week we went out to a bar with a couple of friends (her best friend, and one of my good friends, they're basically dating, and another of her friends). While at the bar, some other dude shows up, she goes off to talk to him, and I turned around later to see them making out. I wanted to leave at this point, but she was my ride back to my car (huge mistake not driving myself), and they wanted to go eat, blah blah blah. After me causing a fuss (I did have to get up for work, afterall), I got her to give me a ride back to my car.
After this, I decided not to even bother talking to her anymore. The week before she was leading me on again, then pulled a "but my parents are home", and the next week she's taking me to a bar so I can watch her act like a hoe with someone she barely knows. **** this ****.
Last night I decided to hit my usual place, as I'm really good friends with the one bartender there (probably the coolest girl in the world, but it's a purely platonic thing). When I got there, she warned me that this stupid ***** was there with her friend and my friend. I checked my phone, and sure enough, they were calling and texting me. I decided to stay, but laid low on the other side of the place.
My friend found me though, and kept trying to get me to come over and sit with them. I declined. Then she comes over and tries her boo-***** guilt tactics on me again, telling me that what she did last week was a mistake, but I completely blew her off this time. She walked away saying that I'm being "immature and stubborn".
Later on I went over anyway, when she was off talking to some guy (who turned out to be gay, hahaha). She got *****y with me when she came back to get something from her purse, so I just walked away. Then she started up with this "You're afraid of me because I'm "independant"!" crap, to which I immediately broke out laughing. Right, so trying to latch on to every guy she sees, then practically crying when they tell her they're "gay" or "becoming a priest", and telling me she still clings on to hope that she'll get back with her ex (it's been a year and a half, he left her, lives in another state, and doesn't seem to like her, so it's not likely to happen), are signs of "independance"? Huh?
By the end of the night she was getting all clingy, rubbing up against me, staring at me, hugging me, resting her head on my shoulder, laughing at every stupid thing I said, ect... then I left.
I'm really not sure how I'm gonna get rid of her, since she's always gonna be around. Any ideas that don't involve hiding out in the woods?
Last week we went out to a bar with a couple of friends (her best friend, and one of my good friends, they're basically dating, and another of her friends). While at the bar, some other dude shows up, she goes off to talk to him, and I turned around later to see them making out. I wanted to leave at this point, but she was my ride back to my car (huge mistake not driving myself), and they wanted to go eat, blah blah blah. After me causing a fuss (I did have to get up for work, afterall), I got her to give me a ride back to my car.
After this, I decided not to even bother talking to her anymore. The week before she was leading me on again, then pulled a "but my parents are home", and the next week she's taking me to a bar so I can watch her act like a hoe with someone she barely knows. **** this ****.
Last night I decided to hit my usual place, as I'm really good friends with the one bartender there (probably the coolest girl in the world, but it's a purely platonic thing). When I got there, she warned me that this stupid ***** was there with her friend and my friend. I checked my phone, and sure enough, they were calling and texting me. I decided to stay, but laid low on the other side of the place.
My friend found me though, and kept trying to get me to come over and sit with them. I declined. Then she comes over and tries her boo-***** guilt tactics on me again, telling me that what she did last week was a mistake, but I completely blew her off this time. She walked away saying that I'm being "immature and stubborn".
Later on I went over anyway, when she was off talking to some guy (who turned out to be gay, hahaha). She got *****y with me when she came back to get something from her purse, so I just walked away. Then she started up with this "You're afraid of me because I'm "independant"!" crap, to which I immediately broke out laughing. Right, so trying to latch on to every guy she sees, then practically crying when they tell her they're "gay" or "becoming a priest", and telling me she still clings on to hope that she'll get back with her ex (it's been a year and a half, he left her, lives in another state, and doesn't seem to like her, so it's not likely to happen), are signs of "independance"? Huh?
By the end of the night she was getting all clingy, rubbing up against me, staring at me, hugging me, resting her head on my shoulder, laughing at every stupid thing I said, ect... then I left.
I'm really not sure how I'm gonna get rid of her, since she's always gonna be around. Any ideas that don't involve hiding out in the woods?