"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I can't orgasm from intercourse

Chefcurrywts

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ive never been able to orgasm from intercourse. Does anyone else have this issue? I also think intercourse is overrated. Does anyone else think so?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Intercourse is indeed overrated until you figure out how to be satisfied.

My last girl cured me of (a temporary, milder version of) this. Find the right girl and have sex 10 times in one night, and repeat that for months and you will get it right.

You might take Ginseng or other natural male enhancement herbs. Infowars' Super Male Vitality worked so well my girl started saying she was too sore to go a fourth time.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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MrJack

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ive never been able to orgasm from intercourse. Does anyone else have this issue? I also think intercourse is overrated. Does anyone else think so?
It's the porn bro. Stop now while you can because it's literally ****ing up your brain. Check out nofap if you don't know about it already.
 

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Stop whacking, increase your zinc, magnesium and vitamin D intake, and grab some Cialis if necessary. Only shoot a load when it's inside a girl until you can have the odd spank without it ruining your performance in the sack.
This man knows what he's talking about listen to him
 

Dash Riprock

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ive never been able to orgasm from intercourse. Does anyone else have this issue? I also think intercourse is overrated. Does anyone else think so?
I've honestly never heard of this for a guy. Impotence issues, yes, for which there are many treatments. Are you taking a SSRI by chance? Or are you an avid bike rider? Both can affect sensation during intercourse.
 

QuadDeuces

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Not being able to blow a load doesn't have to have anything to do with impotence or low testosterone.

Biggest reason is a mental one. You're too obsessed and worried about not coming that you won't come.
Stop thinking too much and keep breathing and stay in the moment while having sex. Once you're able to let go you'll be blowing load after load.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Trainwreck

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I have the same issue and it's called death grip. If it takes you longer to orgasm then your penor gets more used to your hand.
 
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I don't have this issue, but yes it's overrated.

But male desire for this overrated act which could cost $150 gives females power in society, in relationships, etc.
 

TheGambino

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I blow cvm in her pvssy whenever I want Im a beast niqqah
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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BetterCallSaul

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OP has definitely been watching too much porn. I personally am not a believer of no fap. I'll wank it maybe once a week, but yeah too much porn use is a bad thing.

I have never NOT been able to orgasm from f*cking a girl. Some more easily than others, but I'll always blow a load for them. Hell just wiping the c*m from my d!ck onto their cl!t and pu$$y lips is something enjoyable...hell I'm ready to go right now just thinking about it.
 

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2 positions I can cvm in. Doggy and girl on top.

Sometimes I have this issue if I have cvmmed a lot that day. I just jack it a bit at the end.

I find this much more commonly if I am wearing rubber. I just don't want to "waste" my orgasm in rubber.

Also, what I find IMPOSSIBLE is to cvm through hard thrusting. It needs to be a rhythm. Plus. if the girl knows how to tighten her pvssy at that point it is far easier.

I have had girls just lie there and do nothing with her vag and I am never, every going to be able to cvm like that.

Also, some girls just put me on edge sexually. Some give me the feeling I am "allowed" to do my thing to get MYSELF off. Others, it feels like a team effort to get me to cvm.

I think this is common and my own self confidence following a few LTRs helped me. Not sure if this is physical. For me it wasn't.
Wanted to +1 this post. Good girls who know how to work it can work wonders. Angling their hips in such a way that when you're thrusting in doggy creates an amazing sensation..there is no way to even describe it now that I'm thinking about it. Usually she has to have her upper body flat on the bed while her pu$$y is up in the air on her knees or something. Dammit, I'm hard just typing this up. You guys who are complaining are missing out. Get on tinder or find an experienced escort or something.
 

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Not being able to blow a load doesn't have to have anything to do with impotence or low testosterone.

Biggest reason is a mental one. You're too obsessed and worried about not coming that you won't come.
Stop thinking too much and keep breathing and stay in the moment while having sex. Once you're able to let go you'll be blowing load after load.
The big head always rules the little head.
 

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The big head always rules the little head.
Good theory, but not always true. Ask any of the guys that have been poon blinded in their past.
Or are you talking about attraction?
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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