"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I can't orgasm from intercourse

Chefcurrywts

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ive never been able to orgasm from intercourse. Does anyone else have this issue? I also think intercourse is overrated. Does anyone else think so?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Intercourse is indeed overrated until you figure out how to be satisfied.

My last girl cured me of (a temporary, milder version of) this. Find the right girl and have sex 10 times in one night, and repeat that for months and you will get it right.

You might take Ginseng or other natural male enhancement herbs. Infowars' Super Male Vitality worked so well my girl started saying she was too sore to go a fourth time.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MrJack

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ive never been able to orgasm from intercourse. Does anyone else have this issue? I also think intercourse is overrated. Does anyone else think so?
It's the porn bro. Stop now while you can because it's literally ****ing up your brain. Check out nofap if you don't know about it already.
 

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Stop whacking, increase your zinc, magnesium and vitamin D intake, and grab some Cialis if necessary. Only shoot a load when it's inside a girl until you can have the odd spank without it ruining your performance in the sack.
This man knows what he's talking about listen to him
 

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ive never been able to orgasm from intercourse. Does anyone else have this issue? I also think intercourse is overrated. Does anyone else think so?
I've honestly never heard of this for a guy. Impotence issues, yes, for which there are many treatments. Are you taking a SSRI by chance? Or are you an avid bike rider? Both can affect sensation during intercourse.
 

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Not being able to blow a load doesn't have to have anything to do with impotence or low testosterone.

Biggest reason is a mental one. You're too obsessed and worried about not coming that you won't come.
Stop thinking too much and keep breathing and stay in the moment while having sex. Once you're able to let go you'll be blowing load after load.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I have the same issue and it's called death grip. If it takes you longer to orgasm then your penor gets more used to your hand.
 
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I don't have this issue, but yes it's overrated.

But male desire for this overrated act which could cost $150 gives females power in society, in relationships, etc.
 

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I blow cvm in her pvssy whenever I want Im a beast niqqah
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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OP has definitely been watching too much porn. I personally am not a believer of no fap. I'll wank it maybe once a week, but yeah too much porn use is a bad thing.

I have never NOT been able to orgasm from f*cking a girl. Some more easily than others, but I'll always blow a load for them. Hell just wiping the c*m from my d!ck onto their cl!t and pu$$y lips is something enjoyable...hell I'm ready to go right now just thinking about it.
 

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2 positions I can cvm in. Doggy and girl on top.

Sometimes I have this issue if I have cvmmed a lot that day. I just jack it a bit at the end.

I find this much more commonly if I am wearing rubber. I just don't want to "waste" my orgasm in rubber.

Also, what I find IMPOSSIBLE is to cvm through hard thrusting. It needs to be a rhythm. Plus. if the girl knows how to tighten her pvssy at that point it is far easier.

I have had girls just lie there and do nothing with her vag and I am never, every going to be able to cvm like that.

Also, some girls just put me on edge sexually. Some give me the feeling I am "allowed" to do my thing to get MYSELF off. Others, it feels like a team effort to get me to cvm.

I think this is common and my own self confidence following a few LTRs helped me. Not sure if this is physical. For me it wasn't.
Wanted to +1 this post. Good girls who know how to work it can work wonders. Angling their hips in such a way that when you're thrusting in doggy creates an amazing sensation..there is no way to even describe it now that I'm thinking about it. Usually she has to have her upper body flat on the bed while her pu$$y is up in the air on her knees or something. Dammit, I'm hard just typing this up. You guys who are complaining are missing out. Get on tinder or find an experienced escort or something.
 

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Not being able to blow a load doesn't have to have anything to do with impotence or low testosterone.

Biggest reason is a mental one. You're too obsessed and worried about not coming that you won't come.
Stop thinking too much and keep breathing and stay in the moment while having sex. Once you're able to let go you'll be blowing load after load.
The big head always rules the little head.
 

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The big head always rules the little head.
Good theory, but not always true. Ask any of the guys that have been poon blinded in their past.
Or are you talking about attraction?
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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