"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I can't make the decision.

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Okay first of all I don't want to make it seem like I'm having others over an internet forum make decisions for me. I just need some help to get my mind together and make the right one. Well to make a long story short I have been applying a lot of what I learned from this site and I have been talking to this really cute girl that used to be in one of my courses (Lets call her girl a). I get really good vibes from her and she gives me subtle and indirect signs that she wants me to ask her out. Funny thing is right before I'm about to make my move her friend (girl b) who is so much hotter than she is gets involved and has been trying to win my attention over and acting extra nice. I don't mean to sound like a d1ck but I'm having second thoughts about girl a and I want to fvck girl b but something tells me to forget about girl b because getting laid is guarenteed with girl a. I convince myself to forget about girl b and right when I make up my mind and I'm about to go for girl a guess who shows up to change my mind the second time around? Why does this really hot girl get so interested all of a sudden when she sees I'm happy and ready to go lose the v-card? What should I do? :mad:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why forget one? Have both! The more you have, the easier it is.
 
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F the one that you got interest from first then go for the friend...

She's really cute, great personality, kind and I know her well enough to know that she isn't high maintenance.

Why forget one? Have both! The more you have, the easier it is.

Is this even possible??? :confused: If it is than how can I do this considering that they both know one another? I would love to have both and keep the one that makes me happier :rock: Does this make me a challenge or an *******?
 
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F the one that you got interest from first then go for the friend...

She's really cute, great personality, kind and I know her well enough to know that she isn't high maintenance.

Why forget one? Have both! The more you have, the easier it is.

Is this even possible??? :confused: If it is than how can I do this considering that they both know one another? I would love to have both and keep the one that makes me happier :rock: Does this make me a challenge or an *******?
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Oh, you're in high school I take it. In that case, it will be hard, but if you life as if you are catch, it won't be that hard.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The idea of having both has actually crossed my mind but I don't know if I can "hang out" with one girl one day and then the other one several days later and get to know them both. Eventually I'll have to drop one and keep one that makes me happier. I don't even know if this is a stupid idea or not because I don't even know if I want anything serious.
 
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Given your history, I'd say go after the easy target. Why go after platinum when you haven't even tasted gotten any bronze yet let alone gold?
 
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i'd just go after the one i really want more. if you want both, then well, it won't hurt to try. :up:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Given your history, I'd say go after the easy target. Why go after platinum when you haven't even tasted gotten any bronze yet let alone gold?

I have also put some thought into this. I think you're right and it's exactly what I'm going to do. Thanks.
 
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