"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I can't make the decision.

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Okay first of all I don't want to make it seem like I'm having others over an internet forum make decisions for me. I just need some help to get my mind together and make the right one. Well to make a long story short I have been applying a lot of what I learned from this site and I have been talking to this really cute girl that used to be in one of my courses (Lets call her girl a). I get really good vibes from her and she gives me subtle and indirect signs that she wants me to ask her out. Funny thing is right before I'm about to make my move her friend (girl b) who is so much hotter than she is gets involved and has been trying to win my attention over and acting extra nice. I don't mean to sound like a d1ck but I'm having second thoughts about girl a and I want to fvck girl b but something tells me to forget about girl b because getting laid is guarenteed with girl a. I convince myself to forget about girl b and right when I make up my mind and I'm about to go for girl a guess who shows up to change my mind the second time around? Why does this really hot girl get so interested all of a sudden when she sees I'm happy and ready to go lose the v-card? What should I do? :mad:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why forget one? Have both! The more you have, the easier it is.
 
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F the one that you got interest from first then go for the friend...

She's really cute, great personality, kind and I know her well enough to know that she isn't high maintenance.

Why forget one? Have both! The more you have, the easier it is.

Is this even possible??? :confused: If it is than how can I do this considering that they both know one another? I would love to have both and keep the one that makes me happier :rock: Does this make me a challenge or an *******?
 
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F the one that you got interest from first then go for the friend...

She's really cute, great personality, kind and I know her well enough to know that she isn't high maintenance.

Why forget one? Have both! The more you have, the easier it is.

Is this even possible??? :confused: If it is than how can I do this considering that they both know one another? I would love to have both and keep the one that makes me happier :rock: Does this make me a challenge or an *******?
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Oh, you're in high school I take it. In that case, it will be hard, but if you life as if you are catch, it won't be that hard.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The idea of having both has actually crossed my mind but I don't know if I can "hang out" with one girl one day and then the other one several days later and get to know them both. Eventually I'll have to drop one and keep one that makes me happier. I don't even know if this is a stupid idea or not because I don't even know if I want anything serious.
 
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Given your history, I'd say go after the easy target. Why go after platinum when you haven't even tasted gotten any bronze yet let alone gold?
 
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i'd just go after the one i really want more. if you want both, then well, it won't hurt to try. :up:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Given your history, I'd say go after the easy target. Why go after platinum when you haven't even tasted gotten any bronze yet let alone gold?

I have also put some thought into this. I think you're right and it's exactly what I'm going to do. Thanks.
 
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