"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I can't make the decision.

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Okay first of all I don't want to make it seem like I'm having others over an internet forum make decisions for me. I just need some help to get my mind together and make the right one. Well to make a long story short I have been applying a lot of what I learned from this site and I have been talking to this really cute girl that used to be in one of my courses (Lets call her girl a). I get really good vibes from her and she gives me subtle and indirect signs that she wants me to ask her out. Funny thing is right before I'm about to make my move her friend (girl b) who is so much hotter than she is gets involved and has been trying to win my attention over and acting extra nice. I don't mean to sound like a d1ck but I'm having second thoughts about girl a and I want to fvck girl b but something tells me to forget about girl b because getting laid is guarenteed with girl a. I convince myself to forget about girl b and right when I make up my mind and I'm about to go for girl a guess who shows up to change my mind the second time around? Why does this really hot girl get so interested all of a sudden when she sees I'm happy and ready to go lose the v-card? What should I do? :mad:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why forget one? Have both! The more you have, the easier it is.
 
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F the one that you got interest from first then go for the friend...

She's really cute, great personality, kind and I know her well enough to know that she isn't high maintenance.

Why forget one? Have both! The more you have, the easier it is.

Is this even possible??? :confused: If it is than how can I do this considering that they both know one another? I would love to have both and keep the one that makes me happier :rock: Does this make me a challenge or an *******?
 
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F the one that you got interest from first then go for the friend...

She's really cute, great personality, kind and I know her well enough to know that she isn't high maintenance.

Why forget one? Have both! The more you have, the easier it is.

Is this even possible??? :confused: If it is than how can I do this considering that they both know one another? I would love to have both and keep the one that makes me happier :rock: Does this make me a challenge or an *******?
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Oh, you're in high school I take it. In that case, it will be hard, but if you life as if you are catch, it won't be that hard.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The idea of having both has actually crossed my mind but I don't know if I can "hang out" with one girl one day and then the other one several days later and get to know them both. Eventually I'll have to drop one and keep one that makes me happier. I don't even know if this is a stupid idea or not because I don't even know if I want anything serious.
 
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Given your history, I'd say go after the easy target. Why go after platinum when you haven't even tasted gotten any bronze yet let alone gold?
 
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i'd just go after the one i really want more. if you want both, then well, it won't hurt to try. :up:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Given your history, I'd say go after the easy target. Why go after platinum when you haven't even tasted gotten any bronze yet let alone gold?

I have also put some thought into this. I think you're right and it's exactly what I'm going to do. Thanks.
 
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