"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I cant get enough sex.

GREAT WHITE SHARK

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hello

Im in a ltr for 1 3/4 year. And the problem is that we dont see each other very often, once or twice a week, and Im not getting enough sex with my gf.

Im thinking about going out with another girls, just for the sex.

What would you do in my position?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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YoungBG

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Walk this way ,is right ...why not talk about it with your girl
You wanna go thru all the problems that come with cheating becuz you aint happy with the amount of sex you get ? thats real dumb , if you really want more sex and your girlfriend is not willin to give it or hasnt got the time you should break up becuz cheating is lame and not a fair option

peace !
 

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Ya, I had the same problem as you. My girl and I only saw each other a few times a week. I told her something like, "hey... uh... I don't mean to be shallow, but it really sucks that I only get to see you a few times a week.... yaknowwhatImean?" She got the hint, and now even though she's very busy, she comes over for a quicky a few more times a week. She will want to keep you satisfied, so if you tell her you need more, she'll probably accommodate you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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