"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I cant get enough sex.

GREAT WHITE SHARK

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hello

Im in a ltr for 1 3/4 year. And the problem is that we dont see each other very often, once or twice a week, and Im not getting enough sex with my gf.

Im thinking about going out with another girls, just for the sex.

What would you do in my position?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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YoungBG

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Walk this way ,is right ...why not talk about it with your girl
You wanna go thru all the problems that come with cheating becuz you aint happy with the amount of sex you get ? thats real dumb , if you really want more sex and your girlfriend is not willin to give it or hasnt got the time you should break up becuz cheating is lame and not a fair option

peace !
 

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Ya, I had the same problem as you. My girl and I only saw each other a few times a week. I told her something like, "hey... uh... I don't mean to be shallow, but it really sucks that I only get to see you a few times a week.... yaknowwhatImean?" She got the hint, and now even though she's very busy, she comes over for a quicky a few more times a week. She will want to keep you satisfied, so if you tell her you need more, she'll probably accommodate you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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