- Sep 30, 2017
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Yo man , its normal if you still have stuff running over your head.Hi gents. This is a strange one for me. So I've been seeing a few girls lately and one of them has become my main plate. Started sleeping with her around early December and for some reason, I just can't *** from sex with her.
She's a very attractive girl, easily an 8 but she's got a totally different body type to what I'm used to or what I normally go for. All of my exes have been curvy (slim, big up top) but this girl is tiny. Very athletic body, better abs than me but for some reason I can't *** when we do anything sexual.
It's getting to the point now where I already know it's not going to happen before we even start anything and it's massively throwing me off. Have any of you ever had this happen to you and what can I do to change it?
I've tried only using her nudes to masturbate to and that's not a problem at all, *** every time but the issue only occurs when we have sex or she gives me a bj etc. She hasn't really said anything but she's definitely noticed that it's only her cumming and me just sitting there after looking deflated. What I don't want to happen is she starts thinking it's her fault and it starts to affect her confidence because she's incredible in bed (does pretty much everything, nothing is out of bounds etc).
I don't know if this is something to do with not being fully "over" my ex still? I was with her for 11 years and have two kids with her and had bad oneitis for her. Any advice would be appreciated.
Plus , you are freaking out of burden of performance.. if she comments something about you not cumming , dont stress it.
It is what it is. If you dont cvm , no biggie, just enjoy le sex