"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I cant *** during sex

Don-Kong

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You are definitely not the only one with this problem.

The doctor will give you an OK because medically he will show there is nothing wrong other than it being some sort of inner mental barrier.

I've seen this a million times in therapy with various guys and women. Very common, very treatable. You wont need therapy. Its probably not necessary but people can get very worried about it but if it becomes too much, go speak to a sex therapist.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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wonderer

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Don-Kong said:
You are definitely not the only one with this problem.

The doctor will give you an OK because medically he will show there is nothing wrong other than it being some sort of inner mental barrier.

I've seen this a million times in therapy with various guys and women. Very common, very treatable. You wont need therapy. Its probably not necessary but people can get very worried about it but if it becomes too much, go speak to a sex therapist.
How had it been treated? and how long did it take?
 

Atom Smasher

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OP, are you on ANY kind of medications at all?
 

donjuanapprentice01

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I had this problem before as well. This is mostly an emotional problem. In my case, i was f****ing this girl bareback. She told me she had fertility problems and couldnt get preggo, so i figured screw the condom. Well, she THEN tells me she is preggo. The dread came over me like a baseball bat. In reality though? She lied about the whole thing trying to trap me.

I couldnt *** no matter what after that, even with a rubber. The dread that i felt was still inside me.
 

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wonderer said:
I have a problem. I cant c*m during sex.

This is something thats happened with 8 different girls (most one night stands and with a condom). Ill get hard and go and go but no end point. I can last 45 mins with no joy. Its killing me, I just feel nothing in my d*ck just feels like nothing. Sometimes I struggle to have an errection too itl just go soft, but most the time its hard.

I have managed to *** inside a girl before but its rare. I usually have to get tossed off by her to oblivion before any joy.

A little background on me: im 25, healthy, used to watch porn and whack off every day, sometimes more than once a day.

Anyone else have this problem and overcome it?

I'm worried and a bit down about it all. Girls think its them. And im worried about the future when I want to have kids.

Stop watching porn, you masturbate too much

go 90 days without watching porn or masturbating and it will return to normal

Too much porn desensitize your penis.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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