“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I cant *** during sex

Don-Kong

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You are definitely not the only one with this problem.

The doctor will give you an OK because medically he will show there is nothing wrong other than it being some sort of inner mental barrier.

I've seen this a million times in therapy with various guys and women. Very common, very treatable. You wont need therapy. Its probably not necessary but people can get very worried about it but if it becomes too much, go speak to a sex therapist.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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wonderer

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Don-Kong said:
You are definitely not the only one with this problem.

The doctor will give you an OK because medically he will show there is nothing wrong other than it being some sort of inner mental barrier.

I've seen this a million times in therapy with various guys and women. Very common, very treatable. You wont need therapy. Its probably not necessary but people can get very worried about it but if it becomes too much, go speak to a sex therapist.
How had it been treated? and how long did it take?
 

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OP, are you on ANY kind of medications at all?
 

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I had this problem before as well. This is mostly an emotional problem. In my case, i was f****ing this girl bareback. She told me she had fertility problems and couldnt get preggo, so i figured screw the condom. Well, she THEN tells me she is preggo. The dread came over me like a baseball bat. In reality though? She lied about the whole thing trying to trap me.

I couldnt *** no matter what after that, even with a rubber. The dread that i felt was still inside me.
 

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wonderer said:
I have a problem. I cant c*m during sex.

This is something thats happened with 8 different girls (most one night stands and with a condom). Ill get hard and go and go but no end point. I can last 45 mins with no joy. Its killing me, I just feel nothing in my d*ck just feels like nothing. Sometimes I struggle to have an errection too itl just go soft, but most the time its hard.

I have managed to *** inside a girl before but its rare. I usually have to get tossed off by her to oblivion before any joy.

A little background on me: im 25, healthy, used to watch porn and whack off every day, sometimes more than once a day.

Anyone else have this problem and overcome it?

I'm worried and a bit down about it all. Girls think its them. And im worried about the future when I want to have kids.

Stop watching porn, you masturbate too much

go 90 days without watching porn or masturbating and it will return to normal

Too much porn desensitize your penis.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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