“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I can't do anything with this, right?

Mr. Goods

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I have mentioned this in regard to a post or two before, I work with a professional sports team. This past weekend, we hosted an event at our stadium.

Because G*d likes to mindfvck with me, a HB 8.5 from one of the schools was working with our department. Not only that, but it was set up that she would be working alongside me somewhat. Soon after, when I was the only one in our department's office, she stopped by to put her jacket away, then suggested we exchange numbers so we'd be in touch (in regard to what was happening that night). I was fine with that lol, though I'm not really a decision-maker in the department. Later on, she asked for my e-mail so she can send along a packet they needed to be printed - I gave her my e-mail, but also out department's since the latter was easier to work with and I was nowhere near a computer. Over the course of the night, we had good rapport, good conversation, and she insisted I help her deliver some notes a few times though I honestly feel one person can easily do it (I didn't say anything...of course I'd work with the HB :cool: ). It's not as if we were around one another consistently though, it was very on-and-off since everyone was scrambling to different places.

I will mention this briefly because I know someone will say something if I don't: My company is strict enough that any noticeable signs of flirting/kino would result in a trip to HR or, if one of my department heads noticed, being canned. Therefore, I will not take any risks in this area at work, my job is easily more important.

Above, I inferred why I don't think anything will happen. Here's why: The school she works at is just under 1,000 miles away. :eek: With that being the huge mountain of an obstacle, I can't see anything working out. But am I wrong? Also, I we exchanged numbers. Is there any small-talk text I can send? Just trying to think of ideas.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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CantTouchMyStyle

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Did I read this right?

1) Potentially could get canned from what seems to be a decent job.

2) Girl is over 1,000 miles away?

No man.
 

Mr. Goods

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CantTouchMyStyle said:
Did I read this right?

1) Potentially could get canned from what seems to be a decent job.

2) Girl is over 1,000 miles away?

No man.
Well, #1 (from your list) is in effect at work. The #2 part is definitely the problem.
 

PectoralisMajor

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yea, text this,

hi xxx, its blah blah from 'insert your name'. I enjoyed working with you last night - if your next around town anytime soon let me know.

then leave it. the door has been left open, see?
 

Mr. Goods

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PectoralisMajor said:
yea, text this,

hi xxx, its blah blah from 'insert your name'. I enjoyed working with you last night - if your next around town anytime soon let me know.

then leave it. the door has been left open, see?
That sounds like it can work, thanks. :up:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I think it can work. The thing is, external factors that make it harder for you to be together can work in your favor to increase attraction, if you spin it the right way. Act like the kind of guy who lives in the moment and doesn't care about what happens in the future. If there's a girl who you get along with really well, it doesn't matter to you that she lives 1000 miles away as long as she's there NOW and you can spend time with her NOW.

That's why when you're on vacation somewhere and you tell a girl you're leaving in a week, she'll still hook up with you and is even MORE likely to. There's something romantic about it I guess.
 
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