Okay so every time I find a girl I think I like and I think shes cute ill show my friend who's like a brother, his opinion is very important to me and will basically sway my opinion, an example being ill show him and he'll say I can do better or that she's not cute and when he shows me a girl he likes i don't think she's very cute either.. I say we have different taste but he insists that I have bad taste. He basically ruins all of my decision making when it comes to women and I don't know how I can tune his decision out I guess I'm basically trying to gain his approval.. Any help as to how I can tune out his opinions? I guess I just need a pep talk?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I can't choose for myself
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