Okay so every time I find a girl I think I like and I think shes cute ill show my friend who's like a brother, his opinion is very important to me and will basically sway my opinion, an example being ill show him and he'll say I can do better or that she's not cute and when he shows me a girl he likes i don't think she's very cute either.. I say we have different taste but he insists that I have bad taste. He basically ruins all of my decision making when it comes to women and I don't know how I can tune his decision out I guess I'm basically trying to gain his approval.. Any help as to how I can tune out his opinions? I guess I just need a pep talk?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I can't choose for myself
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