"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I can't choose for myself

Gamemasta

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Okay so every time I find a girl I think I like and I think shes cute ill show my friend who's like a brother, his opinion is very important to me and will basically sway my opinion, an example being ill show him and he'll say I can do better or that she's not cute and when he shows me a girl he likes i don't think she's very cute either.. I say we have different taste but he insists that I have bad taste. He basically ruins all of my decision making when it comes to women and I don't know how I can tune his decision out I guess I'm basically trying to gain his approval.. Any help as to how I can tune out his opinions? I guess I just need a pep talk?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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crazyboy

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You can stop acting liking a little b!tch and be a man. and make decision for yourself. Who gives a flying rat azz what someone else like it should be about what you like. When you have sex her do you want him in the room with you as well.
 

PappyS

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That is what women do. Guys let their penises select their partners, not their friends.
 
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