Okay so every time I find a girl I think I like and I think shes cute ill show my friend who's like a brother, his opinion is very important to me and will basically sway my opinion, an example being ill show him and he'll say I can do better or that she's not cute and when he shows me a girl he likes i don't think she's very cute either.. I say we have different taste but he insists that I have bad taste. He basically ruins all of my decision making when it comes to women and I don't know how I can tune his decision out I guess I'm basically trying to gain his approval.. Any help as to how I can tune out his opinions? I guess I just need a pep talk?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I can't choose for myself
- Thread starter Gamemasta
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